Focus on the contrast between the "soft" (love) and the "sharp" (lust).
? I can draft a specific version once I know the format you prefer.
Oxytocin and dopamine are both triggered by non-sexual touch, but only if it lasts longer than 20 seconds. Commit to one 20-second hug per day that has no goal other than presence. Let your bodies soften into each other. This builds the love. Then, let one hand drift lower than usual. This invites the lust. Same embrace, two voices.
The "Love, Lust, Better" framework creates a narrative arc for the couple.